Why do we still feel like something is missing?
We have all been there, right? It doesn’t mean you’re a failure or that you have a “bad marriage”. What does it mean? Simply that you’ve hit a moment in time, or maybe even a season, where something has been lost. This “something” could be a lot of things: trust, passion, ability to communicate, an understanding, satisfaction with sex, emotional connection, intimacy, or even all the above.
Tawnya and Scott have experienced all that over their 25 years together. (Yes they were just kids when they started dating.) Over the last decade, they have been actively coaching couples and teaching them new skills to deal with these challenges. Scott and Tawnya have learned from the best marriage gurus and have worked to apply as much as they can to their own marriage. Scott and Tawnya believe that good marriages don’t just happen, they’re built on intention and good practice. They also believe there is no better place to find fulfillment than in a healthy and passionate marriage.
But they admit marriage is hard! Even for them, a few years ago, they went on a quest to answer this question: “If we have done everything ‘right’ and by all accounts, we have a ‘good marriage’, why do we still feel like something is missing? Why aren’t we completely fulfilled, satisfied, and absolutely passionate with each other???”
The high achievers they are, Tawnya and Scott decided to go ALL IN and put their individual comfort zones at risk in the pursuit of a higher level of marital satisfaction together. The process was, to be brutally honest, hell for them. At the hardest rock bottom moment, they realized it was not an option to go back to “the good marriage” they had, but they couldn’t figure out what was missing to have the relationship they both desperately wanted and felt each other deserved. In an extremely painful moment, they admitted to each other, they were ready to separate. They felt completely defeated and broken. In love, but unable to meet the other’s needs. Or so they thought.
They gave it one last ditch effort by going to Tony Robbins’ week-long seminar called “Date With Destiny”. As they boarded the plane for the trip, both were grasping to a tiny bit of hope that this could save their marriage, but inside were terrified about the very real possibility it would mean the end of their 18 year marriage. Needless to say, the trip and seminar was a success.
Now, they thank God every day for that hell they went through because that “all in” bet paid off for them big time! Now they have more than a good marriage, but one that completely fulfills them; full of passion, growth, contribution, and intimacy that they didn’t imagine was possible. And they want to teach you the secrets that have created such an unbelievable bond and connection.
Take the next step towards your Dream Marriage:
In this interactive Quest, you'll be guided by the Marriage Architects, Scott and Tawnya. They’ll take you step-by-step through a process they deliver to their one on one coaching clients.
Coaching and Advice from Marriage Architects The app tracks your progress automatically, and we’ll be with you each step of the way. And if you need additional coaching and feedback, just let us know! We want to help you accomplish your goals for your relationship.
Go at Your Own Pace You can go through the program in about a month, but you are able to determine the pace of your progress. We believe you will find tremendous value by making this Quest a daily habit. Sometimes, it makes sense to repeat one of the lessons and you can do that as many times as you like.
Most Affordable Program Marriage Architects clients typically invest hundreds of dollars per hour in order to realize a transformation in their marriage, but you get to work with Scott and Tawnya for a total investment of only $247 through this awesome app. If you want to add Personalized Private Coaching to your Self-Study, you can for a total of just $1599! This is a great way to get even more out of your Quest, with increased accountability and trouble-shooting. Either way, get started with the first four Missions for free...then decide what works best for you.
Good Foundation + Passion = Dream Marriage
Whether you are in crisis, or just want to take your marriage from good to great, or anything in between, Scott and Tawnya want to help you get there too. They have helped the most desperate situations you can imagine. Is it really possible to go from the brink of divorce to fully passionate, fulfilled and connected like never before? Yes, absolutely it is.
What the Marriage Architects have to offer is a unique combination: a wealth of experience, knowledge, techniques and skills foundational for a healthy marriage coupled with a real life, transparent, caring and vulnerable approach to helping you ignite the passion in your relationship that you dream of.
With a little help and a little faith, you can do this! One step at a time is all it takes. And you can get there much quicker than you think possible. You just need someone to show you the way. Scott and Tawnya are here to help you.
Highschool sweethearts, together for twenty-five years; married eighteen. They have three kids ages six, nine, and thirteen. This family loves to travel all over the world, and are based in quiet West Linn, Oregon. While they are involved in several businesses, Tawnya’s main profession is Fitness Coach and Trainer, and Scott’s is Business Coach and Consultant. Both have degrees; in Psychology for Scott, and Business for Tawnya. They have been entrepreneurs since 2001, creating businesses together as a team, as well as individually. Inspired to make a positive impact on the world through the marketplace, Scott teaches values-based entrepreneurship classes, while Tawnya mentors hundreds of women developing their own businesses. Trained as Marriage Coaches, as well as Prepare Enrich Facilitators. They have enjoyed coaching married couples since 2010. At Marriage Architects, they intend to coach any couple to a passionate, deeply intimate, and completely fulfilling marriage.
Quest Curriculum
- 5 Levels
- Coaching By Tawnya & Scott
- Community Support
- iOS & Android
-
Level 01 Change Your Mindset=Change Your Marriage
We breakdown the limiting beliefs that are common in marriages. We challenge you to think differently about your marriage and your spouse. Your mindset is the foundation for success. This week, we ask you to stop pointing a finger at each other, and start looking forward.
-
Level 02 Begin To Create A New Connection
The things that are common sense aren’t necessarily commonly done. That said, good marriage takes work and intention. In week 2, we begin to do some of the stuff that may seem like common sense when you hear it, but are you doing it? We will challenge you to do the work of creating a new connection.
-
Level 03 Seek First To Understand
What’s keeping you from understanding each other? We explore the cycles we get on that make us drive each other crazy (not in the good way), and how to get off the negative cycles. You will learn practical tools that will revolutionize your ability to understand each other.
-
Level 04 The Key To The Dream Marriage
Striving for Unconditional Acceptance is at the heart of designing and building your Dream Marriage. It’s not just feeling accepted, but it’s being appreciated for your uniqueness. You will learn what it takes to achieve this skill that will revolutionize your marriage and your life.
-
Level 05 Empowerment and Encouragement
Spend this week gaining the additional wisdom, tips and tricks we’ve learned along the way to create a sustained transformation. Make new commitments, based on what you've learned, to your Dream Marriage.
Success Stories
-
Ryan & Andrea Garrow It was wonderful!
"They are honest, sincere, down to earth and heartfelt. Their calling and passion to help marriages is obvious. As coaches, they are willing to be vulnerable right alongside you. They aren't afraid to challenge you when needed, or ask the tough questions. We discussed real issues. We felt equipped with tools that would help us in the future. They provide a safe space to talk about problems. This was great for us! We still use the communication tools in challenging conversations."
-
Husband (desires anonymity) Did I marry the wrong person?
"Wouldn't it be easier to just start over? These are questions I asked myself for over 20 years in my marriage. Years in and out of numerous marriage counselors with little to no success. Around two years ago I alone began working with Marriage Architects and have seen more transformation in the last 12 months of my marriage than the last 25 years combined. MA has taught me how to become a better me and in the process brought a rekindling of my marriage that I never possible."
-
Melissa & Michael Dudleston It was great working with them!
"We worked with Scott and Tawnya 4 1/2 years ago. It provided us with a good example of what a healthy Biblical relationship looks like. They are very inviting and we both felt we could be honest with everything we talked about. The most valuable experience was being able to be open with another couple about our fears and struggles. We learned open communication. In times we invite each other into every area of our lives our marriage is strong."
-
Billy & Lauren Mitchell Our coaching program was incredible
"Our coaching program was incredible, challenging, and transformational. It helped us see things in a new way. We better understand our differences. We have tools to use. We could finally “hear” each other, and understand we’re different and be OK with that. We have gained confidence in our relationship, that we can let the small stuff go, and still trust and love each other through the harder stuff. Scott & Tawnya ask the right questions, and are good at letting us get to the right answers."
-
Marlon & Dr. Rashida Cohen It was very helpful; also painful
"It was very helpful because it helped me to learn the best way to communicate with my spouse. It was also painful because it helped me to see the error in my ways. I learned to be quiet and pray. The biggest thing is being slow to speak and quick to listen. As a business owner, working on removing the boss hat and putting on my feminine wife hat at home is key. The coaching is very positive and well balanced. It caused us to have more peace in our marriage and I’m able to watch the Lord work."
